For me the most romantic\erotic thing about spuffy was the way Spike looks at Buffy. It was absolutely clear that nothing else exists in the world for him, only Buffy. The gifst, illustrating what I'm talking about: Spike looking at Buffy (http://dailyspikegifs.tumblr.com/post/98831660303/spike-looking-at-buffy). Or this scene from "Life Serial". (http://dailyspikegifs.tumblr.com/post/98621098992) And even in "Wrecked", when they are fucking down the house, the most erotic moment is Spike's face, the way he is looking at Buffy.
Most of the moments when he was actively seducing her (like balcony scene in Dead Things) were more creepy than sexy. It just always came out as too predatory...
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The gifst, illustrating what I'm talking about: Spike looking at Buffy (http://dailyspikegifs.tumblr.com/post/98831660303/spike-looking-at-buffy).
Or this scene from "Life Serial". (http://dailyspikegifs.tumblr.com/post/98621098992)
And even in "Wrecked", when they are fucking down the house, the most erotic moment is Spike's face, the way he is looking at Buffy.
Most of the moments when he was actively seducing her (like balcony scene in Dead Things) were more creepy than sexy. It just always came out as too predatory...