I had an aunt like that. Her name was Betty, She was my aunt by my mothers previous marriage. She did not like me because I was not the child of her brother. The first husband. She would constantly berate me, tell me that I was going to be in jail by the time I was 18. While I was and have always been a law abiding citizen.Her daughter who was literally on crack and steeling and constantly getting arrested could do no wrong. I earned that to make her happy I had to become invisible, meaning I had to be quiet and only answer when she asked me a direct question. Sometimes you can't win for losing.