dragonyphoenix

The bit with the money is a family thing. Before she passed, my mother used to be generous and then verbally abusive as if her generosity entitled her to be mean. I've seen Alice do this in the past as well. In fact a lot of this is driven by family patterns: the anger, the generosity and then abuse, the disowning.

I'll see what my sister says but if I hear nothing else I'll probably cash it. I'd been thinking of using it for a visit to my therapist to help me work out how to deal with Alice. *shakes head*

I've been tempted to post and say I don't have to worry about being offensive anymore, but I've managed to restrain myself. Nobody really wants to see that.